Actually… it may be easier that way! Exploring sexual energy while with a partner has pretty glaring limitations—past patterns, habitual responses, fear of looking weird, fear of hurting the other’s feelings, etc.

Sometime you really can go further alone because the limits and constraints of a relationship are not there… and then you can start off your next relationship from this new level of awakening—if that’s what you want. Meaning you will probably attract in a more evolved partner with whom you can go even higher and deeper, since you don’t have to unlearn any unproductive patterns!

And for you coupled people out there… honor that being coupled is your particular journey and know that you can do a lot of this work yourself, and then bring it to your partner. Or invite your partner to the program and do it together!

This program will help you experience pleasure, bliss and ecstasy in ways many have never been able to. Orgasm is not the be all, end all of sexual energy. It is a grain of sand on the endless beach of sexual expression. So maybe it will, but that’s almost beside the point... 

I have definitely seen my fair share of people having spontaneous orgasms in my retreats, sometimes for the very first time! I’ve also heard beautiful post-retreat orgasm stories about experiences with partners and with deeper levels of orgasm. But orgasm is not the ultimate goal. Our goal is so much bigger and more pleasurable than that.

I cannot begin to tell you how this will change your day-to-day life, because you are so incredibly unique and how sacred sexuality will transform your life is so incredibly unique. But I can give you some examples of what I’ve seen this work do for others:

• Turn back time so people both look and feel more youthful, and have more energy, passion and vitality on a daily basis.
• Release individuals from hiding their own beauty, literally losing weight as they accept that it is alright for them to be as radiant as they’ve always wanted to be.
• “Miraculously” heal fertility issues that made it impossible for women to get pregnant. Women who were trying for years to get pregnant were pregnant the week after working with me.
• Heal ancestral trauma that has been passed down for generations, to the point that the individual had no idea it was sabotaging them until they were already working through it.
• Give people the strength to leave toxic relationships and break out of karmic relationship cycles.
• Attract in the dream partner that individuals had just about given up on.
• Awaken the natural, healthy, aligned power in Self, so each person can confidently take control of their lives and move out of playing small and/or victim mindset.
• Heal sister and brother wounds of comparison, jealousy, distrust, allowing folks to find their own circle of close friends for often the first time.

And that is just in the last seven years of facilitating this work! I have only seen enough to know there is so much more to know… The transformative power of sexual energy, as far as I can tell, is limitless.

There’s no such thing as a sexual peak, and menopause is not the sexual drop-off we’ve been told it is... I’ve met people who openly say that they came into the most sexual time of their lives at the age of 70. And they do that by working intentionally with this energy, at the heights and the depths that we are going to in this workshop series.

At these divine levels, being in menopause or post-menopause doesn’t matter, being single doesn’t matter, your sexuality and gender doesn’t matter, your past trauma doesn’t matter. We are working with the raw essence of sexual energy, the energy that has created us and everything around us.

First, let me say I am not a trained therapist, counselor or doctor. If you are working with intense trauma of any sort that affects your ability to function on a daily basis, I highly recommend working one-on-one with a specially trained professional.

That being said… I have had numerous certified sex therapists, psycho-therapists and trauma therapists join me in workshop & retreat, online and in-person, and leave saying, “This work goes deeper and heals more than any modality that I’ve ever experienced before.” 

Healing trauma is what our bodies do. Our bodies know how to do this innately. We just need to get out of our own way—which often requires a guide—and a safe place to open and release.

These days it is RARE to find these kinds of spaces. So that’s what I do: I create a sacred container and hold it firmly so everyone feels as safe to go as deep as they are called. Often that involves facing trauma that people haven’t felt safe or supported enough to face before. 

I have to say that one online workshop series won’t completely heal everything we touch into here. You may have sexual trauma and not work with it in this program (though that is unlikely.) But when we work with an energy this powerful and pure, we can trust it is healing & awakening us to the exact degree that serves our highest good in this moment. Sounds cheesy, but I've watched it happen with thousands of individuals over the last decade. This energy loves you and will not lead you astray.